About the Book
My Thoughts
This is my first time reading Sonya Lalli and I was completely enchanted by her storytelling. I enjoyed the characters and the storyline. Jasmine and Jake had great chemistry and I wanted to shake Jasmine so many times for her to wake up and realize it! I also love a good family-oriented story.
What really stuck with me about the book are the cultural and societal norms that affected the relationships between Jasmine and her parents and Indian community. I feel like I got an education as Ms. Lalli introduces the reader to this diversely vibrant community. But what really crushed my spirit was the way Jasmine was treated (and the way she saw herself) after making a mistake at 15 by kissing a guy at one of the community get-togethers in which everyone could see.
This brought embarrassment to Jasmine and her family, causing her to be shamed (and backbitten) by the community and by her parents. Well, I think that’s too harsh an observation. There was a lot of animosity between Jasmine and her parents because Jasmine did something that this community considers inappropriate and distasteful and nothing like what “good girls” should do, ultimately hurting her chances to find a suitable husband in the future. I found this aspect gave the story so much more depth and realness to it.
I felt so much sympathy and love for Jasmine. She’s a beautiful and vivacious modern woman, easily relatable. She’s just trying to figure things out in the world like all the rest of us bumbling around. After being fiercely protective of her for most of the book, as it neared the end I became so proud of Jasmine for growing and becoming the person she’s always wished herself to be.
This is not just a romance story, it’s also about finding one’s self and being happy with it. About giving yourself a break when you mess up. We all mess up. No need to punish yourself and deny yourself happiness because you don’t think you deserve it or you don’t want to disappoint your parents or someone else. We all deserve happiness, I am just so glad Jasmine was brave enough to claim hers.
Wow, sorry I didn’t mean to go so deep there. I never thought this book would hit me the way it did, or how wonderful and beautiful the world is now with this story in it.
Bottom line: I absolutely enjoyed the book and highly recommend it to all readers!
FTC Disclaimer: I voluntarily read a copy of the book generously provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review. This in no way influences my thoughts or feelings about the book.
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